Do nice guys finish last dating
Yet, she will then do the OPPOSITE by dating a bad boy, a jerk or a guy who doesn’t treat her well. What she means by “nice guy” is a confident, masculine guy who is also a good guy. Nice guys who get rejected or dumped by women are those who are shy, nervous, wimpy and intimidated around women.
She really does want a good guy, but a typical nice guy usually misinterprets what she means by “nice” and that is where the problems begin.
She does not mean a shy, unassuming, nervous nice guy who feels intimidated by her and makes her feel as though she’d almost be doing him a favor by being with him. Most guys in this world are GOOD GUYS and most guys have a girlfriend or wife.
Being a shy, nervous, self-doubting nice guy is not the answer to short or long term success with women.
[Read: 10 types of guys girls find creepy] Of course, bad boys are extremely attractive.
But I don’t think any girl takes a bad boy seriously or gives him a thought beyond a one night stand. They’re both the two extremes of a spectrum that girls don’t care about. And a nice guy gives a girl a chance to have a man Friday to run her errands.
Yet, time and time again, their partners abandon them, overlook them, mistreat them, and generally fail to love them back.
Nice guys and gals are completely confused by these outcomes.